tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4547717249674686544.post8539007991375741311..comments2023-05-08T06:20:40.221-07:00Comments on Lady Lydia: Fighting Frustrationsadodosahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04778424098848698951noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4547717249674686544.post-43875710131952830312014-03-25T20:15:18.332-07:002014-03-25T20:15:18.332-07:00Thanks Nicky. I'll try.Thanks Nicky. I'll try.sadodosahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04778424098848698951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4547717249674686544.post-69696047344078768582014-03-25T06:50:58.079-07:002014-03-25T06:50:58.079-07:00I used to be like that to the point where my mom h...I used to be like that to the point where my mom had said that she'd support me until I find another job because she didn't like what those days did to me. I was almost unbearable when I got home and always with a headache. <br /><br />What I've found helpful when I have those days (when I lived with someone), I'd ask for an hour. I'd retreat to my bedroom with the door closed and give myself an hour to get it together. I had to learn how to recover quickly because 1. the person / people I lived with didn't deserve my treatment of them and 2. I didn't want my work issues to reside with me at home for any length of time. <br /><br />It took some effort to communicate that the issue wasn't the person I lived with, it was just that I needed to clear my head but it was worth it. I was able to calm down then treat myself, my home and those who lived in it with me with love despite what was going on at work. <br /><br />Talk to your best friend. That person might understand more than you know. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com